Sunday, February 5, 2017

Our Values: Compassion and Caring

Cameron Presbyterian Church engaged in a value-forming exercise at our Annual Congregational Meeting, and determined four values that will guide us in 2017: compassion & caring, faith, serving and support. Each Sunday in February, I will focus on one of these values.
Sunday, February 5, 2017 
Matthew 9:27-38
27 As Jesus went on from there, two blind men followed him, crying loudly, “Have mercy on us, Son of David!” 28 When he entered the house, the blind men came to him; and Jesus said to them, “Do you believe that I am able to do this?” They said to him, “Yes, Lord.” 29 Then he touched their eyes and said, “According to your faith let it be done to you.” 30 And their eyes were opened. Then Jesus sternly ordered them, “See that no one knows of this.” 31 But they went away and spread the news about him throughout that district.

32 After they had gone away, a demoniac who was mute was brought to him. 33 And when the demon had been cast out, the one who had been mute spoke; and the crowds were amazed and said, “Never has anything like this been seen in Israel.” 34 But the Pharisees said, “By the ruler of the demons he casts out the demons.”

35 Then Jesus went about all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues, and proclaiming the good news of the kingdom, and curing every disease and every sickness. 36 When he saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. 37 Then he said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few; 38 therefore ask the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest.” 


Sermon: Our Values: Compassion and Caring”

There is a reason I like to write my sermons in coffee shops. (And no, it’s not just because of my affinity for that glorious gift of God that is coffee.) I write in public because it forces me to engage the biblical text with what’s happening around me. Rather than in the quiet solitude of my office, I find that I’m interrupted by people walking by, drinking, talking, laughing, crying even. It challenges me to engage the Word of God with the world around me.

And so, just as I was beginning to get into the rhythms of this here sermon, God decided to interrupt me with that world. A woman who worked as a volunteer at the little charity bookstore connected to the coffee shop I was in came over to me, having seen me meeting with her pastor earlier. Her name is Marge. Marge wanted to tell me her faith story. To be honest, what I wanted was to get this sermon written. A little internal struggle began, we all know it well, where I could nod along and pretend to listen, all the while thinking about what words might fill this page, or I could choose to really look at her, and actually listen.

I’m so glad the Spirit nudged me to choose rightly. Marge told me that she wound up at my friend’s Presbyterian church after a long time without church. She was raised Catholic, but then she got a divorce. She was allowed to come to mass, but couldn’t take communion. So, she eventually left, and had what she described as “a long time of wandering.” Then, Marge found a place where her faith was nurtured and she felt supported.

In the span of 5 minutes, I actually learned a lot about Marge: that she’s reading a book I love (called Ireland, of course), that her son was born on St. Patrick’s Day, and that, as much as she loves books, she always puts people first, and welcomes conversation.

I think God brought me Marge to interrupt my tedious Greek study of the word “compassion” used in this chapter of Matthew and remember that, while that word study matters, it matters more than I practice compassion, even if it interrupts my best-laid sermon writing plans.

Jesus welcomed these sorts of interruptions, better than any of us ever could. He would be walking along, after endlessly doing his Messiah thing, trying his best to get a little “me” time, but it never worked. Crowds followed him everywhere. No matter how many times he told the newly-healed to keep it quiet, word of his compassion got out. Compassion is like that; it can’t be shushed or forgotten. It’s contagious, in the best possible way.

Jesus had healed so many according to Matthew: a leper, a demoniac, a whole household, a paralytic, but it was never enough. There was always one more. And Jesus, no matter how tired, no matter how desperate he was for some alone time, always made time for that one more. This is what was meant when Matthew said, When Jesus saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.”  

Jesus didn’t think first of his own inconvenience and weariness, but instead he focused on their feelings of harassment and helplessness. That is as good a definition of caring as any: putting the helplessness of another before our own.

That helplessness comes in many forms: certainly Jesus’ compassion for people was nearly always moved by illness, and the helplessness those suffering and those who suffered with them felt. He also saw helplessness in a hungry crowd, and like a tutting grandmother worried they would faint on their way home, and so fed them with more food than anyone could possibly eat.

We see helplessness in our day in illness and in hunger. We also see it in loneliness, or the desire for human connection, even if just for 5 minutes in a coffee shop. We see it in those who feel the world is changing too much for their liking, and we see it in those who long for it to change more. We see it in those whose faith has inexplicably left them, or who have been burned by the bitter experience of an uncaring congregation.

When Jesus spoke of the harvest being plentiful, and the laborers few, he wasn’t urging those uncertain disciples to militantly proselytize with hellfire and damnation. He was telling them to do what he had been doing all along: to see the helpless people, that one more, and have compassion on them.

If we say that a value of our church is to be caring and compassionate, this is our starting place. The harvest is indeed plentiful: you need only spend time in a hospital waiting room, or a struggling Cameron antique store, or a lonely living room, or a weary child pick up line at the elementary school, to see that. So many people feel helpless, even within our own walls. We can keep our heads down, focused on the next item on our to-do list, prizing productivity above all else, or we can stop. Look up. Look around. Look another human being in the eye and see Christ looking back at us.

Being a people who value compassion and caring really is that simple: we choose not to get so caught up in our stuff that we don’t see people longing to be noticed. We choose to be honest with each other about our own helplessness, and let this faith community show care to us. We choose to be laborers in Christ’s harvest of compassion, even if this means it interrupts our carefully laid plans, in order to find that one more person in need of hope.

Think for a moment about the last time you felt really, truly cared for. What made you feel that way? I’m betting it wasn’t someone buying you something expensive. I’m betting it wasn’t someone validating your opinion as better than another’s. I’m betting it wasn’t someone looking through you but not really listening, or someone impatiently demanding a bunch of confusing information from you. I’m betting it wasn’t someone telling you to trust God without being honest about how hard that is sometimes.

I’m betting it was someone looking you in the eye, and smiling. I’m betting it was someone who heard you’re automatic “I’m fine” answer, but then gently nudged, “but how are you, really?” I’m betting it was someone getting you a cold glass of water before you could get it for yourself, or asking you how they could be praying for you (and you knowing they will).

This labor of compassion isn’t complicated: it’s making each other feel valued and important and heard. Don’t we have time to do that? The laborers are few, not because people don’t want to care, but because they think they don’t have time. We always have time, friends. Let the dishes pile up. Let the grass get a little long. Let the to-do list be forgotten for a day. Let the lunch take longer than you have scheduled. (Let the sermon be mediocre!) But don’t ever let that one more person feel forgotten or alone.

Thanks be to the Caring Creator, the Ever-Compassionate Christ, and the Interrupting Spirit, helping us see and care for that one more person, amen.


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